Imposter Syndrome. Depression. Anxiety. Existential dread. These are some of the psychological afflictions shared by countless souls, yet rendering individuals convinced they’re the only ones in existence suffering these maladies. What a bizarre paradox. Our brains tell us we’re alone even while we’re decidedly not.
Often, it’s easier to push others away or confront our inner battles alone rather than opening ourselves to other people. What if they say I’m a “freak” or “broken” for feeling the way I do? Better just bottle up everything inside. In other cases, it’s impossible to imagine other people could feel the same way you do. Why, then, bring up your mental health struggles if it’ll inevitably sound like Latin to even your closest friends? These are the scenarios one’s mind (or at least mine) can come up with to keep arduous psychological turmoil close to the chest. Experiences and hardships potentially binding individuals together instead create further barriers.
Unsurprisingly, profoundly observational and insightful filmmaker Lee Chang-dong proves especially masterful painting a bittersweet portrait of this phenomenon in Possible Love. married couple Mi-ok (Jean Do-yeon) and Ho-seok (Sul Kyung-gu). They (along with their son Cheol) are grappling with a new, frustrating status quo involving Ho-seok's extended depression. His despondency stems from being laid off from his job after participating in a sit-in strike. Two years after losing this gig, Ho-seok’s anguish festers.
However, Mi-ok gets a renewed lease on life after striking up a conversation with documentary filmmaker Ye-ji (Cho Yeo-jeong). This lady and her seemingly perfect husband Sang-woo (Zo In-sung) are making a feature about laid-off workers, so Mi-ok and her family are perfect interview subjects. Thus, Ye-ji becomes a regular fixture of this family's life. Mi-ok adores having someone to talk to, but Ho-seok remains silent and fixated on the past. Even when Ye-ji inquires about interviewing this man for her film, he refuses.
Possible Love’s central married couple are both licking their wounds from the past. Both, however, are taking radically different approaches to confronting those scars.
A pivotal Possible Love conversation sees Ye-ji recall a Singapore vacation that inspired her current fixation on proletariat-focused documentaries. Specifically, she was impacted by Sang-woo observing how the workers making their destination possible were rendered “invisible.” “Everyone’s comfort comes at the expense of someone else’s labor,” he pontificated. After that, Ye-ji dedicated herself to making documentaries centering oft-ignored lives. Lee Chang-dong’s filmmaking and script (the latter of which he co-penned with Oh Jung-mi) for Possible Love echoes this fascination with several memorable one-scene characters.
A meeting for laid-off workers to express their feelings, for instance, features a monologue from one male ex-employee recalling how his friends talked dirty about him behind his back because of his union activities. Told largely in one unbroken take, this riveting sequence is rich with memorable dialogue and naturalistic acting. Then there’s the groundskeeper tending to Ye-ji and Sang-woo’s beachside house. Without saying a word, he leaves an impression, especially with how he quietly makes Cheol feel at home during a trip largely centered around his parents' needs. A woman giving a speech at the strike and the daughter of Mi-ok’s boss similarly leave an enormous impression with minimal screentime.
Rich capitalists try with all their might to make working-class people see each other as enemies. The bourgeoisie especially demonizes efforts like unions that reinforce the rights and humanity of ordinary souls. Possible Love is a cinematic balm to these standards. Chang-dong offering room for single-scene characters to leave indelible impacts alone epitomizes this reality. Every character in this feature (from Ye-ji’s filmmaking crew to a currently employed worker Ho-seok briefly follows) is potently experiencing their own saga. Possible Love’s world doesn’t begin and end with Mi-ok and Ho-seok.
Chang-dong’s commitment to that subdued yet deeply human aesthetic makes Possible Love a 164-minute exercise you don’t want to end. Said commitment includes utilizing Jung Jae-il's original score sparingly (which accentuates the immersive naturalism) and refusing to barrel through even the most mundane conversations. Chang-dong and cinematographer Kim Ji-yong's craftsmanship extends to delivering memorable blocking without capsizing Possible Love’s verisimilitude. The sensation that we’re watching life organically unfold endures even with incredibly meticulous staging.
Possible Love’s palpable realism ensures that the most mundane sequences become intoxicating. As long as I live, I’ll never forget about inebriated Mi-ok joyfully singing a tune in an alleyway after her first dinner with Ye-ji and Sang-woo. When a new friendship starts blossoming, it inspires such radiance and excitement. You’re suddenly relishing not only the laughs and chatter shared moments ago, but also the social-based possibilities for the future. Jean Do-yeon’s portrayal of Mi-ok in this moment perfectly translates that internal experience to the silver screen in such endearing terms. How can you not adore someone who is so happy and free?
Similarly low-key yet endlessly compelling is a mid-movie scene concerning Mi-ok confronting her boss on starting a union. This segment reflects an unexpected but deeply welcome Possible Love focal point. Like an amazing Megan Thee Stallion song suddenly making room for an iconic Olivia Rodrigo guest verse, the already outstanding Possible Love offers viewers an extra gift in emphasizing worker rights. This material doesn’t just offer further opportunities for Chang-dong to examine this movies characters. It also informs one of Possible Love’s most achingly harrowing sequences concerning Ho-seok’s last day protesting.
Even before that glimpse into Ho-seok’s past, Sul Kyung-gu keeps this subdued character captivating. It’s always remarkable when actors take a repressed character and still render them consistently engaging. Kyang-gu does just that with his haunted Ho-seok portrayal. This actor’s portrayal of a man caked in layers of agony simultaneously echoes a more buttoned-up take on Cillian Murphy’s Dunkirk performance and the saddest basset hound ever. Kyang-gu’s deeply human manifestation of that persona, though, makes it clear there’s something more vulnerable underneath that repressed exterior.
In any other movie, Sul Kyung-gu’s work would unquestionably reign supreme over any other performances. However, the acting champion here is Jean Do-yeon. Reuniting with Chang-dong after their exceptional Possible Love collaboration, she thrives in these restrained confines. Conceptually simple moments like Mi-ok remarking the word “freedom” on the beach or observing a rainbow created by Cheol playing with a hose are so immensely affecting in her hands. You can practically reach out and touch wider interior worlds Do-yeon hints at in these tiny details. Plus, Do-yeon is so moving portraying Mi-ok coming more and more out of her shell as her friendship with Ye-ji and Sang-woo deepens.
Staggeringly impressive and unique specificities litter Sul Kyung-gu and Jean Do-yeon’s lead Possible Love performances. Yet each actor achingly reinforces one truth: Ho-seok and Mi-ok both suffer from loneliness. The latter character craves connections with others to break up her monotonous existence. Ho-seok, meanwhile, wistfully stares at his unused, handmade concrete social area (once planned for hangouts and BBQs with his co-workers) even while insisting on keeping his distance from others.
Their responses to past trauma and pervasive loneliness wildly vary. Yet similar psychological turmoil plagues these individuals who believe they’re growing apart. Possible Love’s intimate and subdued world potently realizes this melancholy reality. Once more, Lee Chang-dong has crafted sublime understated cinema speaking volumes about existence's most arduous experiences.
Possible Love begins playing in select theaters on October 23rd and hits Netflix worldwide on November 6th.










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